Don't Blame the Reflection

Many times we can sit and ask ourselves why things aren't going right in our lives. We tend to blame things outside of ourselves and try to find the answers there as well. Blaming the reflection will not bring you the things that you crave in your life. So what will? That's what this article discusses.

Getting healthier, getting happier, getting rid of chronic illness and how to be rich.
How to have a better life and how to be more satisfied and we have this innate ability to manifest whatever it is that we need to have.

Whether it's anyone of the things above or whatever your own spin might be on it. It's right there. It says something about the person themselves when you ask that type of question. It says that you are tired of the way things are and that you want something better. You recognize the fact that you are not living up to your full potential

So know that at least, number 1, you are on the right track if you have asked such a question. YAY...the rest is easy! (I know, you're saying, "riiiight""

So with all of these things, keep in mind that these are not the real problems. They are just symptoms of the bigger issue. What we want to do is get down to the core of what is really going on. What is it that is truly holding you back.

There is a short and long answer as to what it is that is at the core of all these other feelings...no, it's not money! Although that is what a lot of us think. "If only I had this amount of money", or "If only this job would come through", or "if only...." And I have to tell you in my experience, your going to "if only" your life away.

What it comes down to is to simplify these things. I think we get into our heads and we make our minds the decision maker in our lives. We buy so much into conformity and what everybody else is doing that it makes it tough to find our own way to health and happiness.

So a lot of times when you look around and you look into your relationships and your look into your financial situation and you gaze at all of these areas in your life and if they are not working you need to reverse the direction of your focus if you will, to the inside not the outside.

Everything is a mirror reflection of what it is that is going on inside of you. That includes the people in your life and how they behave. It's said that if there is someone in your life that you really resent or that you have a great amount of resistance to, that it is to the same degree that you have that within you. Now you can look the world and blame the reflection all you want, but it is not going to change until you take responsibility for what is happening.

And so what that does for us it allows us to get really focused and say, "So what is happening to me is a creation of my own thoughts and actions." Your thoughts, your belief system, your attitude towards how you approach things.

What story have you been telling yourself about the reality of your life?

That's what it all boils down to.

Let's take a look at some of the things that might be holding you back from that inner reflection.

I can tell you that they are things that only 6.7 billion people on the planet have faced.
Lack of self confidence, lack of self esteem and self love. Self love being one of the strongest.

If you don't love yourself or even like yourself then you will not be able to manifest the things in life that are good for you or even beneficial to you. If you are thinking that you don't deserve or you are not worthy, then how could you possibly benefit yourself with all that the universe has to offer?

The place that I started from was to really pay attention to my thoughts. Whatever it is that you put out there, Whatever it is that you are thinking, start to really take a look and say, "How is this affecting me?" is this really the most healthy and best thing that I could be thinking just now?"

Another way you can see what is happening on the inside is to look at who you are surrounding yourself with. Both situations and people. If you have happy, loving and supportive people in your life then you are doing great.

Unfortunately, there are some out there that don't have the support that they need to be everything they are.

Notice I say, everything they are, and not "what they could be."

That is one of the other keys. You are already a great soul light. There is absolutely nothing to "get" and nothing to "be' I believe that we just squash that inside ourselves again because of the various reasons listed above.

Just start saying to yourself, "What am I thinking?" "What am I reflecting?" and that should alter your perception greatly. Will this take care of everything in your life?...Well, maybe not that alone but remember, that even then greatest journey begins with just one step.

Article by - Bobby Marchesso

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